Real-Life Resume Mistakes to Avoid -

Real-Life Resume Mistakes to Avoid -One of the advantages of hiring a professional resume writer is simply a matter of perspective. After reviewing numerous resumes over the years and working in HR we have a different sense of what works and what doesnt. Here are some issues Ive encountered in reviewing real-life resumes lately. Hopefully you can learn from unterstellung mistakesPresent your information succinctly Many of the ineffective resumes I see are four or five pages long. Unless youre in a profession like academia that requires a bona fide CV, the chances of a hiring manager reading all four pages of your resume are really close to zero. If you cant fit all of your past experience onto two pages, start examining your experience critically. Is your entry-level job from 25 years ago really relevant at this point?Dont repeat job descriptionsI recently saw a resume from a candidate who had held numerous stttes of a similar nature. Rather than explaining what made each position un ique or interesting, he literally repeated the exact same job description six times in the same resume. Although the candidates experience showed that he was not a lazy individual, his resume gave the impression that he couldnt be bothered to write a unique summary of his accomplishments at each of his positions.Use formatting correctlyUsing formatting such as bullets and section dividers on your resume looks greatas long as you actually know how to do it. If youre unsure of how to include these elements, read up in the help section of Word, check out a book like Microsoft Word for Dummies, or ask a friend to help you. Using these elements in a haphazard way can have the unwanted effect of making your computer skills look poor, when in reality maybe creating bulleted sections just isnt be your forte.The hiring industry has changed dramatically in just the last five to 10 years. We strongly encourage you to have several other people review your resume before you begin submitting it.R esearch shows that job seekers who use a professionally-written resume are 77% more likely to get interviews over those who dont. Thats a competitive advantage you cant walk away from. Great Resumes Fast guarantees your job search success visit our Web site to find out how or call 1.800.991.5187.

Who Does What How My Wife And I Have Handled Dividing Housework Over 3 Decades

Who Does What How My Wife And I Have Handled Dividing Housework Over 3 Decades For most of human history, the who does what of housework was pretty clearly spelled out, with gender determining each lebensgefhrtes specific role and contributions. Thankfully, thats (mostly) no longer the world we live in, but theres still no rule book for helping partners figure out how to divvy up household chores the physical, mental,andemotional ones in a way thats fair and equitable.So, what does the teilen of household chores for modern couples look like, really? In FGBs Who Does What series, we asked couples to complete an exercise in order to share with us the amount and nature of housework they actually do, and how they decided to divvy it all up.--NameJoe M.Location TennesseeRelationship status MarriedWhat type of home (e.g, condo, house) do you have? HouseDo you have any kids or pets?2 grown kids, one dogHow long have you and yur partner been together? 35 years (including dating)How long ha ve you been living together? 30 yearsWhat do you and your partner do professionally? Were both in sales--What chores do you do daily, and how did you and your partner decide youd be the one to do them? Please describe.Approximately 20 years ago, my wife left the workforce to focus on raising our two young girls. Prior to that, we both worked in similar careers and essentially split the duties. During her eight-year hiatus, I took on a promotion with some travel. At that point, my wife took over the monthly bills, and of course most of the care for our girls. A significant element that overlaps finances and time is healthcare. The doctor appointments and subsequent insurance filings are a major time commitment.After my wife returned to the workforce, she essentially kept the finance responsibility. It had been eight years since I had done it, and she is very detailed in that. In addition, she became a very accomplished chef during those eight years. Thus, in order to maintain balance , I have become the sole cleaner of the dishes/kitchen and do all the laundry. On a daily basis, this typically includes clearing the dishes off the table prepping dishes, pots, and pans for dishwasher loading and unloading and cleaning all kitchen surfaces, including floors as necessary. Laundry includes gathering from all bedrooms and bathrooms, washing as labels describe, and typically soaking for a few hours. Drying includes fluff and fold, separating, and hanging as needed. Any items that need taken to the dry cleaners (save for a few that are so detailed only my wife can tell the cleaner what to do), I will also take. At home, Im doing an average of one load and unload/fold per day.I also take out all trash, which includes going around the house to bedrooms and bathrooms. We have house cleaners that come every other week. In between, I will do the floors as necessary. I also maintain the air conditioner filters, lawn, and shrubs. My wife is great at planting so she does that, and she spreads a ton of mulch, too. Living in the south, when hot dry spells come I am the one that waters everything.How about your partner? What chores do they do daily, and how did they and/or you decide theyd do them?Daily, my wife handles the finances, including medical insurance filings. Our kids are grown, but until their 26th birthdays, all healthcare is through our insurance. Most of this is done online. The monthly bills are once a month, but there is much mora over the course of the month. Our eldest is on her own in all things except healthcare, but soon will be on her own there, too. Our younger daughter is still involved with higher education, thus finances are more involved. In this equation, my wife coordinates her medical appointments and remains involved in her daily finances. I in turn take control of her car/transportation and typically arrange our outings.Is the way you and your partner divide tasks similar to the household you grew up in? Why or why not?I grew up in the traditional father works, mom stays at home dynamic. There were five of us kids. I do recall my mom and dad doing the bills together. As I had two sisters and two brothers (one brother with Down Syndrome), much of the chores were divided along traditional gender lines. I do not recall doing any dishes. I also do not recall my sisters doing any cleaning or laundry. My brother and I covered trash and the yard, and Im sure my sisters helped mom.As my own marriage and family situation is much different than the one I grew up in, the roles and responsibilities are much different.Whats something you and your partner could improve on when divvying up and completing household tasks? Whats something you feel youre doing well?I dont think either of us would change a thing. Its a fair balance and plays to strengths and abilities.Lightning Round1. Who makes the bed? Most days- neither. Whats the point? Were not showing our house everyday and prefer just the sheet, so its always ready .2. When you go out to eat, who picks the restaurant and/or makes the reservation?Wife is a little more persnickety, so I let her pick. While she is getting ready I usually make the reservation.3. Who makes doctors appointments? Dentist appointments?Wife.4. Who picks up the dry cleaning?Me.5. Who keeps track of friends and family members birthdays?Seriously? They wouldnt know we existed without my wife.6. Who pays bills? (Or if you divvy this up, who pays which bills?)Wife.7. When something in the house/apartment is broken, who makes sure it gets fixed?Mixed. Wife is handy, does little stuff. I typically arrange and meet repair folks.8. Who makes sure the tags on your cars are up-to-date?Equally divided.9. Who vacuums?I do.10. Who was the brde person to dust something?Neither.11. Who was the brde person to clean your toilet?Neither of us. But if its broken, wife can usually fix. If not, I arrange to meet plumbers12. Who buys groceries?Wife mostly. Before she left the workforce with eight-year hiatus, I was the one who did that. Then she took over. When returned, she has continued much of that, as her expert cooking requires her food shopping. I continue to go approximately every other weekend or as needed.13. Who brings in the mail?I do.14. Who irons?Neither much, but Im the only one that has touched that thing in 25 years.15. Who was the last person to clean out the fridge/pantry of expired items?Wife.16. Youve been invited to a wedding. Who RSVPs?Seriously, what wedding?17. When planning a trip, who books the flights? The hotels?I am the master of all of that, and the family usually says its a great trip.18. Who planned what you did last Friday night?We only do things like that because of my planning.19. Who planned your last date night?I did.20. You need a gift for a friends housewarming party. Who buys it?Seriously, what party?21. Who goes to parent-teacher conferences?We both go. Probably wife has been to more, but I always tried.22. When you need a babys itter, who is the one to book and communicate with them?Evenly divided.23. Your child(ren) has a half-day at school. Who handles this, and how?During eight-year hiatus, mostly wife. Other than that, even.24. Who takes your child(ren) to their extracurricular activities? (If you divvy this up, who goes to what activity?)Even. Anything important, we both go for sure.25. Who planned the last birthday party for a child?What child? Now thats a joke, but their party is all wife.26. Who took your child(ren) to get a vaccination last?Most likely wife, although Ive done that, too.27. Your child acted out. Who will discipline them, generally?Even. They were the subject of two monsters.28. Your child needs a haircut. Who notices this, and who makes the appointment? Who takes them to the appointment?Theyre girls, do you want me giving them a buzz cut?29. Your child is about to outgrow their shoes. Who notices this, and who takes them to the shoe store?StrideRite made bank off them wife. When o lder, I got involved some.30. The last time you got a call from the school nurse that your child was sick, what did you and your partner do?Depending on who was available, although we employed the Big 3. Dont try that if you dont have a fever, arent bleeding, and/or arent vomiting31. During weekends and vacations, who considers the childrens needs for entertainment, meals and their schedule (in general)?Even.--Interested in participating in FGBs Who Does What series? Email infofairygodboss.com with Who Does What in the subject line.